I’m never alone. I’m a mom of three with what could be considered a small zoo inhabiting our residence. But when my other half goes away, I consider myself “alone.”
When I used to drink, this would be considered a prime opportunity to really indulge. I could really let loose and not worry about being judged. Children and pets, after all, aren’t as critical.
So, being 39 days into my sobriety, this is a good test of commitment and resolve.
My other half left yesterday (Friday) morning. I’m pleased to report that as I write this on Saturday evening, I am going strong and doing well. I have not been able to make it to a meeting this week, but I have checked in with my online groups for accountability.
The main group I utilize for support these days is the BFB. It’s a secret group on Facebook that supports people who don’t want to drink anymore. When you post on the main feed, you’re certain to get feedback fairly quickly, and from people who are quite sincere. So it is a great resource to go to for feedback and support, or to turn to before you pick up that first drink, or just for general encouragement or congratulations on your journey.
More recently I joined another support group via Catherine Gray’s Instagram feed @unexpectedjoyof called “Sober Spring.” About a thousand of us replied to her post, expressing interest, and Catherine grouped us into smaller groups (each named after a type of tree) that could support each other via email correspondence throughout the entire spring – March 20th through June 21st (93 days of zero hangovers)!
I belong to the Monkey Puzzle tribe which, admittedly, I didn’t even know was a type of tree until I was assigned!
I like it, partly because I was born in the year of the monkey. So I’ve nicknamed myself The Sober Monkey. On that note, on this sober weekend “alone,” I will leave you with a picture of a Monkey Puzzle Tree and wish you all things wonderful.